So, let’s get something VERY clear here:

Just because I am big does not mean the following:

• I’m going to wear something “flattering”.
• I’m gonna wear a belt around my waist.
• I’m going to wear something that covers my legs/arms/chest/thighs.
• I AM GOING TO HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE.
• I’m going to hide my body.

I’m not going to fit the typical “sad, depressed, wish I was skinny, hiding in the corner, world bringing you down” fat bitch that the world seems to want me to be.

I am a confident, sexy, smart and attractive 22 year old adult female, and I REFUSE to tone down my personal style, the way I dress and the way I am just because someone doesn’t feel confident standing next to me or I don’t appeal to what you’re looking for.

If you don’t like how I’m dressing, too fucking bad. Because I’m definitely not gonna conform to stereotypes and I’m not gonna tone down my personal style. And if you or someone else doesn’t feel confident standing next to me, that is your problem or they’re problem, sweetheart…NOT MINE. That’s a personal issue that you or whoever has to speak to someone about.

I have hips, thighs, an ass, breasts, and I like to dress them. I like leopard print and red nails and harem pants and amazing shoes (cause what girl doesn’t?!) and big gaudy jewelry with my name on it! And I’m not gonna change that for anyone! 

For so many years I have tried understand and get to know myself and be comfortable with these facts, and to also tried to not give two fucks about what anyone else has to say. And it’s taken patience, practice, and a lot of back and forth. But in the end, at this age, and in this moment, I am saying that I don’t give two FLYING FUCKS about it!!! This is who I am!! Everyone’s gonna have a dumbass opinion about you, and that’s the thing.

You have to repeat and understand that their OPINION (not fact) is a DUMBASS OPINION (again not fact.) You also have to get there are people in this world that are STRAIGHT DUMBASSES. They’ll always place the blame for their stupidity on something or someone else.

So, take appreciation in yourself, BE YOU. BE YOURSELF and don’t let anyone EVER TRY TO TONE DOWN YOUR LIGHT. Cause when that happens, that means it’s time to step away and stand in a spot where you’re light is MUCH MORE BRIGHTER instead of being dulled and dragged down by stupidity and ass holery.

And don’t fit the stereotype!! Be better than that!!!

Cause I’m definitely not!!! I’m drawing my line!!